Here's something I made and should work for you as well. With dicso's video, where timing is shown, I think this should help you.
An example of building order for most maps:
School+roads to quarries and woodcutter's if close
3 quarries+woodcutter's
sawmill+quarry+woodcutter's
Farm+2 woodcutter's+sawmill
Farm+gold mine+coal mine
Farm+Metallurgist's
(Inn at 15 minute)
(quarry)+iron mine+2coal mines
Iron smithy+iron mine+ coal mine
Armor smithy+iron smithy+ coal mine
Armor smithy+iron mine+ coal mine
Iron smithy+Weapon smithy+coal mine
Should be finished at around 30 minutes giving you 30 swords at PT
2 swine farms (when corn is at its 4th stage of growth, when it's a little bit green
)
2 Farms
Butchery (closest to Inn)+tannery
2 or 3 Armor workshops
Barracks
2 woodcutter's+sawmill
3 weapon workshops 20 minutes before PT
Stable (again, when corn is at 4th stage of growth)
Gold mine+ coal mine
Metallurgist's
2 schools near metallurgist's
Towers 10 minutes before PT ends
Start training recruits 18 minutes before PT ends. Not earlier, cause they will become hungry and go to the Inn.
Always try to make not more than 2-3 building and once. Also, try to manage your builders, so one group is making houses while the other one is making roads to another houses.
About blocking wares. I'm usually blocking everything except of wooden desks, iron ore (saw this tip on shoutcast, thanks Ben!), food and weapons. But most important ware you should block is stone, 4 quarries are enough for the most game, they are like little storehouses for stones
. Also, if you block gold, you most remember to keep your Metallrugists working all the time and make two schools near them near PT end, so you have good amount of recruits at PT (by good amount I mean around 60-70, which of course depends on what weapons you have). Having weapon delivery unlocked means, that you would have your production going all the time, but when you have Barracks done, a lot of serfs would deliver all this gathered weapon to them, so it would slow your economy a bit, keep that in mind. You can avoid that, by building Barracks earlier.